In this life, we all want to be appreciated and admired. Everyone wants to meet people who see them and notice their presence and absence.
Little wander owners of social network makes millions of dollars yearly from just giving people the opportunity to meet new people and maybe meet new friends online.
If you are new at a school and you are the shy type, meeting new friends might seem rather too difficult, but you can easily overcome it with a little practice.
In this article I am going to show you some cool tips that you can use to find new friends at school.
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Try your best to act friendly
Another way you can act friendly to other people is to try to greet people you would like to be friends with anytime you come across them; greeting makes people to notice you. Just a Good Morning can develop into a very long conversation.
Try to compliment people. Say nice things about them, but be sincere when you do this. If you like the cloth they are wearing you could tell them that they look very good in the outfit.
Asking people questions about themselves or what they are doing is one of the surest way to start a conversation with someone, everyone like it when someone show sincere interest in them. For exam, if you see someone you have interest in reading a book, you could ask them for the name of the book they are reading, then go on to ask if the book is interesting and the conversation can naturally flow from there.
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To make new friend, you have to work on your confidence
Always put what you are good at in the front, develop you skills and interest and let people know you for them, it will give them something to remember you for and a good reason to want to see you again.
Always be you, people hate fake people that say they are what they are not in reality. Work on you negative traits and appreciate what makes you different from other people.
Be positive all the time. Don’t just conclude that someone would not want to be your friend when you have tried to make him your friend and when people reject your act of friendship, don’t take it too personal. Maybe when you approached them was a bad time; they might be having personal issues or even family issues.
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Learn how to keep friends
Be a good listener, let your friends know you care about them by listening to what they have to say, try to understand things from their own perspective. Always be a positive thinker, try to see the good in others at all times.
Let your friendship develop naturally; don’t try to force people into becoming your friends and take things slow when they show interest. You should not talk about your dippest personal feelings or issues with someone you just meet recently, it might scare them away.

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